What you are looking for is called the “hover state.” In the past, this has been accomplished using javascript, so it may be possible by finding the appropriate javascript and adding it to your blog’s head using an action hook.
You would need both the script and the “lit up” version of the icons to make this work. Definitely worth a search on the google.
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